I've been thinking lately about the first child having issues vs. the second child, and what happened in our case.
Rylee was far from delayed. I am pretty sure that she knew all of her body parts at 12 months. She didn't say too much early on, but I know that she woke up one morning talking, and hasn't stopped since. Its hard to keep track, but I believe she is up to 8-10 word sentences. However, it did take her 30 months to figure out how to use a spoon correctly. Ha... figure that one out?
Now, what I have been thinking about, it how Kai has made me appreciate what Rylee was able to do so much more. I feel like this sounds sooo bad. I just feel like if she was the one that had a early childhood developmental delay, that I would have spent the first 18 months of Kai's life, freaking out over every.single.milestone.
But, in hindsight - I did that with him anyway. Mothers intuition? I was concerned that he didn't roll as quickly. He didn't laugh until 4 months. Maybe that was just signs of things to come? I don't know...
I think the point of this, is that I am thankful for each child and what they bring to the family, even though they are so different.
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